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*Sings come on Johnny let's go ton-ny* with no shame, whatsoever ...

Colin definitely doesn’t know Pen has feelings for him yet. It’s Colin who is starting to have feelings for Pen but he’s in denial.

Please do the Featherington mum /mom relationship with Penelope .

I've been rejected by women all my life. I'm now 75. Rejection saps confidence, induces resentment, jealousy, bitterness, low self esteem - and loneliness. It affects every aspect of one's life including working life - as it did in my case. Is it any wonder I feel worthless. For me it's been the worst thing in my life - and I've had cancer!

I'm here .

I have experienced sexual abuse by a friend of my sibling when I was 7 and forgot about this (didn’t tell any family member nor felt that smth wasn’t right, it was our “secret”). At the age of 22 I have uncovered these memories and it took me 1 year of immense healing work, then 2 more years to become strong enough to speak about my experience. I reached out to this sibling to let them know that I don’t blame them but I need support and acknowledgement . And instead I faced ignorance and anger…What happens now is weird - the sibling accuses me of “talking sh*t” and “making nasty things up”. It is bizarre to feel that this sibling who is in some sense responsible for bringing the abuser to our house denies this responsibility. And I again caught myself on this feeling that “I am the fault and I am responsible for their anger at me”. I have already cut this connection with the sibling but it’s still feels weird to see that in their reality I am a lier and a crazy younger sister. I hope that if any of you plans to discuss the long past abuse with the family members you will be heard and comforted, not accused.

I was wondering....It would be great if you could do their relationship analysis. It might be interesting to see their interactions from a psychologist' s point of view.

I've been rejected by women all my life. I'm now 75. Rejection saps confidence, induces resentment, jealousy, bitterness, low self esteem - and loneliness. It affects every aspect of one's life including working life - as it did in my case. Is it any wonder I feel worthless. For me it's been the worst thing in my life - and I've had cancer! I have no "divine light" inside me - if it was ever there it has long been extinguished by life itself.

If you have cptsd you lie to protect your abuser..if you told the truth about them they will double down on the abuse

Colin's nod to her at the wedding is so precious. It's the mark of true, lasting love imo. He's still pissed and he'll go back to being pissed, but there's such a solid baseline of love and friendship, that they're able to go back to that for a little while and just live in the moment. That little nod says it all. Plus, the words that would have played in the song at that moment are "you know I love you so" 😭

Feel safe within yourself ..then tell the truth

colin definitely did the kiss thing out of compassion, doing a favor for a dear friend. I found it interesting that the kiss had diametric effects on them - for Pen it was basically saying goodbye to love and finally ending the “pining for colin” chapter and for colin it opened his eyes to loving her romantically.

Most of Penelope's shunning and "unnattractiveness" was due to her mother's tackiness and penchant for dressing her like a pinata, not her figure.

I had a lot of problems with season 3, but one aspect I absolutely enjoyed was Penelope’s character growth and watching her realize how much she has going for her and what she’s capable of.

Please do an update on this because the Lady Whistledown fiasco brings a totally different dynamic to their relationship as friends and lovers ❤

Thank you thank you for this analysis!!

Yay 🎉 More Polin analysis from Jono please!

Psychology and Bridgerton? Subscribed ❤

This actress who plays Penelope is wonderful! Highly recommend watching a wonderful series called Derry Girls. It was LOL funny from the first episode. it takes place in Northern Ireland during The Troubles in the 90s. It's SO good!

Please talk more about Colin and Penelope! I wanna hear more! 🙏🙏🙏

I'd love to see Penelope therapized and perhaps Queen Charlotte.

Please do more of their scenes!!! There is so much more for you to react to, especially once they get together as couple

I know that season 3 left much to be desired but for sure the previous seasons definitely set up for Colin to be unsure of his purpose in life & add to it what happened with Marina, it is an insecurity 🎁! Which is why I believe his behavior & some of his words in part 2 is understandable (though obviously not cool). I mean imagine you feel crap about yourself and in your mind, the person you love echoed those feelings behind your back. Or thought you were so dense that you needed to humiliated publicly to finally get it. I think we all knew Pen was insecure but as the seasons went on, so was Colin & its so beautiful to see a couple heal each other from that!

We knew that closer personality in the first season with how he treated his sister in the first season. It was all about "I'm your big brother and it's my obligation to find you a suitable match that I 100% approve of, and you will marry who I chose for you because I know best"

"You've gotta hit the protein shakes and the weights" -- I think he hit the botox... his face was so stiff, like he had that constant perplexed look on his face... I liked him better before

All the green flags are waving for this relationship throughout the season!!! They buckle but always come back around, I love it! My accountability and consent kink is fulfilled as well lmao

10:16 What Alice Forgot is maybe too triggering for some but it's a really good book and the reason I love it is that it removed all context for Alice to continue drawing the same conclusions and allowed her to see it all brand new from a different time in her life.

Hey. No shade on the lemonade 🤣🥂

I have a question about a friend who I have been interested for years like Penelope and I told him how I felt...he apparently doesnt feel the same way but when we are together hanging out he gives me mixed signals. What does that tell me? I dont know how to private message you,

I felt a huge gut punch when Penelope overheard Colin's comment about her to his friends. I have *been* Penelope. Many times, and watching their relationship blossom over the 3 seasons was so validating (minus my not finding someone...yet, I guess?). Seeing her confidence and finding herself, then especially standing up to Colin when he is a big sulky baby after she tells him she is going to take care of her own issues was really empowering throughout the whole season even with the roller coaster of their relationship (which tbh I wish had been explored more because everything felt so abrupt and shortened because they crammed another relationship in there). I have to say though, I somewhat disagree with how you mentioned that Colin was finally realizing that she saw him as more than a friend when she made the comment about his eyes. In season 2, he had gone to see his ex-fiancée Marina (from season 1) who was married to someone else now - and she told him flat out to appreciate the love he already has around him. From his family. From Penelope specifically (who Marina knew was in love with Colin). And I think it was when they danced together at the ball, he made a comment about not having seen or appreciating her before. I think he did kiss her not out of pity but because he knew she believed that this was going to never happen for her and he wanted to make sure that she did kiss someone who cared about her instead of someone who would be taking advantage of her. And I think her breathing heavily came more from nerves/anxiety than anything else because it took SO MUCH for her to be vulnerable especially with Colin because of her feelings. And when she runs away after the kiss and he is standing there stunned I joked with a friend that the little lightbulb was starting to flicker on in his head because he is starting to realize that...yeah, he actually has feelings for Penelope but he still has no idea how she feels (especially since he agreed to help her try to find a husband). As far as he knows, she asked him for that kiss because she was comfortable with him - especially with her comments about how she would never expect anything of it, would never ask him for more, etc. I mean, later in the season (IYKYK) when he finally decides to tell her how he feels, her immediate response is to not believe him and say "But Colin, we're friends." and you can see that he thinks he blew it because he still at that moment doesn't know she is also in love with him. And at their engagement party when she's trying to tell him she's Whistledown (and has a panic attack), he tries to calm her down and says that he understands if she no longer feels about him and that she had just gotten caught up in the moment in the carriage. Just my 2 cents, having watched the whole relationship unfold over 3 seasons and relating to Pen not just from the feeling invisible viewpoint but also what she deals with at home.

Gosh the unrequited love- i confessed my love to my high school crush only in the context of needing to get it off my chest since I was trying to get over him. Spoiler -we are still friends to this day, but I was right that he didn’t feel that way about me. Love has many different facets and I think it small imagination to condemn a love to only one form for all time

Colin definitely doesn't know Pen has feelings for him. Not even after she asked for that kiss. He takes her at her word that she doesn't expect more (and reads it as she doesn't *want* more) because, like Pen, Colin is very insecure about his own worth and desirability.

In the books he ends up liking the kiss and was confused as to why she said “thank you”. He didn’t like that she thought it was for pity

Wrestling with this

I didn't see it as a pitty kiss. They both have feelings for each other. Colin may not understand it, or feel it as romantic, but she is his best friend and she makes him happy...She asked him for one thing...and I think he was just chomping at the bit to do something, anything to show her his gratitude for the years of kindness and friendship. especially since the rumor got out and they would most likely not be allowed to see each other anymore. As you said, it was a hail mary, a goodbye. She wanted a kiss and she trusted Colin, and Colin trusted her enough to know she wouldn't try and trap him in marriage because he kissed her.

OH... MY GOD!! This is AMAZING!! Thank you for this!

Colin has zero personality this season. Zero. They basically took his character growth and turned it back. He says the most generic lines ever (and he is supposed to be a WRITER), he spends his time in brothels, he never apologised for all that he said about Pen, he does not support her ideas or her bravery (as a long time friend should, not to mention partner), he sulks, he has her befoew the wedding though HE respected Marina in the S1 enough to say wait, i respect and love you too much, lets wait till the wedding. He mopes the WHOLE wedding (was his nod during the wedding scene supposed to be cute? Really? A nod?). He asks her about all the things he wrote about him never thinking more than 2 seconds to try and understand why she did what she did, how put of control she felt in her home, what she wrote about herself! The only thing she wrote about him was that he is a rake - omg bo hoo, baby boy. Seeeelfiiiish. Immature. Kid. He is way cooler in the books - he s smart, perceptive, he loves Pen for how talanted she is, he asks her advice and says to the whole world that he is proud of her. While here he basically is missing for 2 last episodes until the queen says that Pen is ok! They barely talk about anything, where their common interests, values? How can we speak of love? Its lust at best. Urgh, i can go on and on. This is NOT a good partner ladies. Do not let the abs fool you. Pen is saying over and over that she loves him, apologies for every single mishap - like wtf? And he looks half bored half like ok I ll let you love me darling. This is not a healthy relationship. And the s..x scene, my god that was awful. Pls do not EVER do that to a woman - he barely kisses her, barely any prelude there, before he has her, that wud hurt like hell. It’s disrespectful to both characters and awfully written. Most disappointing season.

OMG I loved this! Please do more videos talking about the rest of the season 🙏🏽

I love pen and Colin's relationship- they have the strongest most realistic relationship I have seen so far and I love it- they pick up when something is wrong with the other, Colin gives her space to tell when she is ready. I love that when they talk outside of the modiste he is actively listening- he asks her questions, he doesn't yell at her, he stays calm, he doesn't run away, and she genuinely answers them - it's clear it's more about his jealousy and his fear for her safety then her actually being whistledown. When he said that she entrapped him he clearly said that out of pain and anger because she didn't entrap him- he is the one who initiated sex, she repeatedly gives him an out and he doesn't take it because he knows deep down that she didn't do that he is just deeply hurt that she kept that a secret and he loves her and wants to marry her. it's obvious how much he wants to be physically intimate with her but is holding back because he is still processing all of this new information which I love- when he opens the door and she is standing there and you see him almost go in and kiss her but he restrains himself even though he wants to because he is not ready. He deeply loves her and for him to have sex with her when they are not in a good place isn't fair to her or him- so by not having sex he is respecting both of them. The first show runner also said that Colin is supposed to be demisexual so him not wanting to have sex when the are not in a good space makes sense- he feels disconnected to her and having sex with her because he is still processing so much new information and feels emotionally separated from her at the moment makes complete sense. It has been ingrained in him that it is a mans job to provide for and protect his wife, so when she says she can take care of herself and he says then what good am I to you, you can feel the pain, pen is independent and doesn't need him in that way, she just needs him for him and it takes some time for him to accept the role reversal

I find it ironic that during the Regency era, the period from 1811 to 1820, that Bridgerton is set in, Penelope's figure WAS the beauty ideal, not the more tiny figures. 'Plump' was used as a compliment more then than now.

i really wish this included their dynamics in season 3 part 2 because their relationship still has pen’s secret identity hovering over them. really interested how lady whistledown changes things for them

Painting and writing

I don't think it was pity or even a compassion kiss, cause there are scenes earlier in the episodes where you can see that he's starting to feel something more. I love Colin and Pen so much! This was a fun video as always

Oh I love this! Please make more videos about Colin and Pen. 🥺🤍

I love that their relationship shows about insecurities and learning to love yourself, to value yourself. I was surprised at how much Colin is actually quite insecure as well, not believing himself worth of love for being himself. Penelope finding herself was beautiful to see.

definitely compassion and kindness! that is 100% colin’s character, however i also think that part of him, deep down, whether he knew it or not, just wanted to kiss her :)

I'm actually not sure he knows. I never saw it that way. When she gave him this huge compliment while they were pretending to be at a ball, and he looked at her stunned and in shock, I thought that her words were just giving him feelings. Which he already began to have when he cut his hand and she took care of the wound and touched his hand (which was super uncommon back then)... What do you think? Also when she asked him to kiss her I still read it as something a friend would do for you and not necessarily her revealing her feelings. A lot of teenagers explore stuff together as friends (at least in my experience). I would love to hear your thoughts on that :) Also, do you think you will want to make more videos about Bridgerton? Maybe about Cressida or about Eloise's and Penelope's friendship or about Lady Fetherington's and Penelope's mother-daughter relationship? I would be very excited about that :D

3:54 HAHAHAHA yes accountability kink!!!!! thats hilarious i love that saaaame